Hello family: I just wanted to drop in quickly to alert you to a book deal. Anyone interested in purchasing the book Nappturosity should head over to the site (http://www.naturalhairbook.com/). It is going out of print and they are offing the last copies at 50% off. If you are like me and did not want to pay the $27 smackeroos for this natural hair book, jump on this quick. This offer ends on September 30, 2010 at midnight and there is a limited amount of books left. You must enter the coupon code "thankyou" upon checkout. Hope someone finds this helpful.
Next week I will be posting about the books I recently read from Lisa Akbari: "The Black Woman's Guide to Beautiful Hair" and "Every Woman's Guide to Beautiful Hair At Any Age". Both were available to my local library. Until next week Lovlies, take care!
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
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In my “teaser” post (here), I hint that I have an understanding on how to care for my hair. I am now focused on proper hair care. In the beginning, experimenting with hair styles and products (both commercial and homemade) was exciting but my primary interest is hair maintenance and preservation these days. As my hair focus has shifted, so has my objective for this blog. I’ve changed the subtitle description of BreaKINK New Ground from “My journey to appreciating my God-given hair and sharing the experience” to “Hair education, not just information!”.
While I still intend to share with you my personal, natural hair journey; I’m more insistent on sharing knowledge here. The key to unlocking a successful hair journey is education. My plans and goals are clear and I’m ready to get down to business.
I must put out this disclaimer: I am not an expert in the field of hair care. The information I share here should be used in addition to your own research. I am simply striving to equip you with accurate information but if you are looking for perfection, you’ve come to the WRONG place!
Since there is so much I want to share with you, I need to reveal the pieces layer by layer; starting at the foundation. I don’t have any hidden agendas or secret missions. When it’s applicable, I will state the source(s) of information I use. It is my hope that you will enjoy and benefit from my new approach. As always, your questions and comments are welcome!
Upcoming – Hair composition/structure. . .
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
There’s still time to enter the “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway (click here for details). This contest will end at Midnight tonight (EST).
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily





There’s still time to enter the "Eco-Friendly" Giveaway (click here for details). This contest will end at Midnight tonight (EST) and details for the new giveaway will be posted tomorrow.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily





Random.org selected #4 so congratulations goes to Shaharazad! You have won (1) 8oz tub of unrefined shea butter (Butters-N-Bars) and (1) 14.5 oz bottle of Almond & Shea Butter conditioner (Suave Professionals).
Please send your info to me at callalily40@gmail.com by July 12th so I can mail your prize.
Thanks to everyone who entered the “Buttered Up” Giveaway.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily

Hair education, not just information!
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Monday, September 13, 2010
Working with what God gave me

I believe the saying goes “Sometimes the helping hand you need is at the end of your own arms” - don’t quote me on the wording :-). Anyway, that has been my approach to detangling my hair over the last few weeks. I haven’t enlisted the assistance of a detangling comb or brush on wash day and I can’t really say I miss it. My God-given “human comb” seems to be working out just fine. I don’t find that it takes any more time than my wide-tooth comb since I would always finger detangle my hair as a first anyway.
I make sure I have a pair of hair shears for stubborn knots and tangles. Another must is making sure my fingernails are tended to before this task (read this). I’m pleased this discovery has gotten me a step closer to rely less on tools/products for maintenance and become more in touch with my hair (no pun intended).
Have any of you tried this method? How did it work out?
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
I make sure I have a pair of hair shears for stubborn knots and tangles. Another must is making sure my fingernails are tended to before this task (read this). I’m pleased this discovery has gotten me a step closer to rely less on tools/products for maintenance and become more in touch with my hair (no pun intended).
Have any of you tried this method? How did it work out?
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Friday, September 10, 2010
Time waits for no one. . .
Days gone by . . . . weeks gone by. . . . a WHOLE MONTH and no word from CallaLily!!! Please forgive my long absence. I apologize for the huge gap since my last post; life has been. . . . life!
To be quite honest, I am weening away from the blogosphere; sad news! There are still some posts that I want to present to you but I will not be moving forward with my original focus for this blog. Look for a Lisa Akbari post in the coming days; I purchased some products and read some books by her.
I'm sorry if this comes as a dissapointment but right now I have to put my energy and focus on more than my hair and blog. Things have been going well with my hair and I hope to give you some periodic updates.
I've enjoyed this hobby and I'll still be lurking around reading and commenting on some of my favorite blogs. I just won't be researching and posting here on a regular basis. I wish all my readers the best on their hair journey!
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
To be quite honest, I am weening away from the blogosphere; sad news! There are still some posts that I want to present to you but I will not be moving forward with my original focus for this blog. Look for a Lisa Akbari post in the coming days; I purchased some products and read some books by her.
I'm sorry if this comes as a dissapointment but right now I have to put my energy and focus on more than my hair and blog. Things have been going well with my hair and I hope to give you some periodic updates.
I've enjoyed this hobby and I'll still be lurking around reading and commenting on some of my favorite blogs. I just won't be researching and posting here on a regular basis. I wish all my readers the best on their hair journey!
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Introduction to "Core Concepts" (new mission)
In my “teaser” post (here), I hint that I have an understanding on how to care for my hair. I am now focused on proper hair care. In the beginning, experimenting with hair styles and products (both commercial and homemade) was exciting but my primary interest is hair maintenance and preservation these days. As my hair focus has shifted, so has my objective for this blog. I’ve changed the subtitle description of BreaKINK New Ground from “My journey to appreciating my God-given hair and sharing the experience” to “Hair education, not just information!”.While I still intend to share with you my personal, natural hair journey; I’m more insistent on sharing knowledge here. The key to unlocking a successful hair journey is education. My plans and goals are clear and I’m ready to get down to business.
I must put out this disclaimer: I am not an expert in the field of hair care. The information I share here should be used in addition to your own research. I am simply striving to equip you with accurate information but if you are looking for perfection, you’ve come to the WRONG place!
Since there is so much I want to share with you, I need to reveal the pieces layer by layer; starting at the foundation. I don’t have any hidden agendas or secret missions. When it’s applicable, I will state the source(s) of information I use. It is my hope that you will enjoy and benefit from my new approach. As always, your questions and comments are welcome!
Upcoming – Hair composition/structure. . .
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Winner of the “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway
The lucky winner of the “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway is Alana! You have won (1) $10 gift card to your choice of Curlmart or Luv Naturals. I will send your prize via the email you designate. Please send your info to me at callalily40@gmail.com asap.
Thanks to all you Lovelies who participated in my "Christmas in July" giveaways. I’ll be getting back to my regular posting next week. . . with a new focus. . . stay tuned!
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thanks to all you Lovelies who participated in my "Christmas in July" giveaways. I’ll be getting back to my regular posting next week. . . with a new focus. . . stay tuned!
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Giveaway reminder
There’s still time to enter the “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway (click here for details). This contest will end at Midnight tonight (EST).Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thursday, July 29, 2010
BONUS: "Dough for Dialogue" Giveaway

Here is the surprise that I said I had up my sleeve :-)
I had a wonderful idea to do a bonus giveaway. I get absolutely ecstatic when I receive and read everyone’s comments to my posts. It lets me know that people are interested in what I have to say; that my time and efforts aren’t in vain! I love to dialogue about hair and I’ve really met some wonderful ladies since starting this blog.
Well, I just want to let you know that it really means something to me when I get to converse with my readers and your comments truly make my day. I am giving a ten ($10) dollar gift card to 2 lucky subscribers. The winners can choose between Curlmart (geared toward hair products) or Luv Naturals (geared toward hair accessories).
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway
The first winner has already been selected. I went back through all my posts since I started blogging and wanted to extend a nice gesture to my top commenter. From June 28, 2009 to June 28, 2010, that individual was. . . (drum roll please). . . ChocolateOrchid!!! :-) Just for letting me know that you were reading my blog during my first year, you earned yourself ten smackers (and I'm sure you'll give someone else a change to win the other prize, lol).
The second winner will be entered into a drawing.
What’s up for grabs?
(1) $10 gift card to Curlmart OR (1) $10 gift card to Luv Naturals
How can I enter?
You must be a BNG subscriber/follower. Your entry in this giveaway is two-fold:
Step 1: Find a post that has NOT been commented on and submit a comment on that post.
Step 2: Locate the post with the most comments. Then come back here and enter the name of that post as well as the name of the post of commented on for step 1.
Two parts for you; one entry for the drawing
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, August 4th at Midnight (EST) to enter the “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway. Your name will be entered in a drawing and my lovely daughter will select the winner on Thursday, August 5th.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Well, I just want to let you know that it really means something to me when I get to converse with my readers and your comments truly make my day. I am giving a ten ($10) dollar gift card to 2 lucky subscribers. The winners can choose between Curlmart (geared toward hair products) or Luv Naturals (geared toward hair accessories).
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway
The first winner has already been selected. I went back through all my posts since I started blogging and wanted to extend a nice gesture to my top commenter. From June 28, 2009 to June 28, 2010, that individual was. . . (drum roll please). . . ChocolateOrchid!!! :-) Just for letting me know that you were reading my blog during my first year, you earned yourself ten smackers (and I'm sure you'll give someone else a change to win the other prize, lol).
The second winner will be entered into a drawing.
What’s up for grabs?
(1) $10 gift card to Curlmart OR (1) $10 gift card to Luv Naturals
How can I enter?
You must be a BNG subscriber/follower. Your entry in this giveaway is two-fold:
Step 1: Find a post that has NOT been commented on and submit a comment on that post.
Step 2: Locate the post with the most comments. Then come back here and enter the name of that post as well as the name of the post of commented on for step 1.
Two parts for you; one entry for the drawing
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, August 4th at Midnight (EST) to enter the “Dough for Dialogue” Giveaway. Your name will be entered in a drawing and my lovely daughter will select the winner on Thursday, August 5th.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Winner of the "Sleek and Shiny" Giveaway

Random.org selected #6 so congratulations goes to Kingsmomma! You have won (1) 4oz Oyin Handmade Burnt Sugar Pomade and (1) 2oz Carol’s Daughter Kizzi “Stay-Put” Hair Pomade (both slightly used). Please send your info to me at callalily40@gmail.com by August 2nd so I can mail your prize.
Thanks to everyone who entered the “Sleek and Shiny” Giveaway.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thanks to everyone who entered the “Sleek and Shiny” Giveaway.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Giveaway reminder

There’s still time to enter the “Sleek and Shiny” Giveaway (click here for details). This contest will end at Midnight tonight (EST).
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thursday, July 22, 2010
"Sleek and Shiny" Giveaway

You’ve all been great this month so this week’s giveaway is super easy :-) I’ve tried using pomades for shine and hold but discovered that it’s not really my thing. The two products in this giveaway have been slightly used but they are not doing anything for me but taking up room in my stash so if you feel you could benefit from the products, please participate.
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “Sleek & Shiny” Giveaway
What’s up for grabs?
(1) 4oz Oyin Handmade Burnt Sugar Pomade (used once) and (1) 2oz Carol’s Daughter Kizzi “Stay-Put” Hair Pomade (used twice)
How can I enter?
If you are a BNG subscriber/follower, leave a comment below in this post “I want it”. That’s it!
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, July 28th at Midnight (EST) to enter the “Sleek & Shiny” Giveaway. I will be using Random.org to select the winner. On Thursday, July 29th I will announce the winner.
Although the month of July is coming to an end and this would be my last weekly giveaway, I’ve got something else up my sleeve for you so keep checking back. . . .
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “Sleek & Shiny” Giveaway
What’s up for grabs?
(1) 4oz Oyin Handmade Burnt Sugar Pomade (used once) and (1) 2oz Carol’s Daughter Kizzi “Stay-Put” Hair Pomade (used twice)
How can I enter?
If you are a BNG subscriber/follower, leave a comment below in this post “I want it”. That’s it!
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, July 28th at Midnight (EST) to enter the “Sleek & Shiny” Giveaway. I will be using Random.org to select the winner. On Thursday, July 29th I will announce the winner.
Although the month of July is coming to an end and this would be my last weekly giveaway, I’ve got something else up my sleeve for you so keep checking back. . . .
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Winner of the "Eco-Friendly" Giveaway

Random.org selected #3 so congratulations goes to Tiffany! You have won (1) 2oz Curl Euphoria Elixir (full size, discontinued product), (1) Curl Ecstasy Hair Tea (2oz sample size) and (2) Curls Milkshake (sample size). Please send your info to me at callalily40@gmail.com by July 26th so I can mail your prize.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Giveaway reminder
There’s still time to enter the "Eco-Friendly" Giveaway (click here for details). This contest will end at Midnight tonight (EST) and details for the new giveaway will be posted tomorrow.Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
AM-8: Hardware for Hair
The Sprite Pure-Spray 8 Deluxe Filtered Shower Head; Model# AM-8 is now in my possession! I feel like I’m in the elite club of ladies whose tresses have been reaping the benefits of this prize, lol. I believe this investment will make a contribution towards improving my hair. I have read how many fabulous naturals feel this device was well worth acquiring since your hair is just one thing that will profit from its use.
A recent NaturallyCurly article explains how damaging water can be to our hair (read here)
If you have a filter, what advantages have you seen from utilizing one?
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
A recent NaturallyCurly article explains how damaging water can be to our hair (read here)
If you have a filter, what advantages have you seen from utilizing one?
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Monday, July 19, 2010
It FINALLY makes sense!
Thursday, July 15, 2010
"Eco-Friendly" Giveaway

Curls was one of the first company’s that I learned about when I made the decision to go natural. I have had so many positive experiences with Curls. This week’s giveaway was inspired by a fellow blogger; where I learned that Curls started “The 4 Step Sustainable CURLS™ Campaign”. The campaign is geared toward making the environment cleaner and greener. Therefore, I wanted to spread the word and base my giveaway with that concept.
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “Eco-Friendly” Giveaway
What’s up for grabs?
(1) 2oz Curl Euphoria Elixir (full size, discontinued product), (1) Curl Ecstasy Hair Tea (2oz sample size) and (2) Curls Milkshake (sample size).
How can I enter?
If you are a BNG subscriber/follower, click on the link below to read up on “The 4 Step Sustainable CURLS™ Campaign”. Then leave a comment below in this post on how you have reduced or plan to reduce your carbon footprint where haircare is concerned. It can be anything from walking to the salon instead of driving to recycling your product containers.
http://www.curls.biz/environista.html
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, July 21st at Midnight (EST) to enter the “Eco-Friendly” Giveaway. I will be using Random.org to select the winner. On Thursday, July 22nd I will announce the winner and post details for the next giveaway.
Think Green! :-)
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “Eco-Friendly” Giveaway
What’s up for grabs?
(1) 2oz Curl Euphoria Elixir (full size, discontinued product), (1) Curl Ecstasy Hair Tea (2oz sample size) and (2) Curls Milkshake (sample size).
How can I enter?
If you are a BNG subscriber/follower, click on the link below to read up on “The 4 Step Sustainable CURLS™ Campaign”. Then leave a comment below in this post on how you have reduced or plan to reduce your carbon footprint where haircare is concerned. It can be anything from walking to the salon instead of driving to recycling your product containers.
http://www.curls.biz/environista.html
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, July 21st at Midnight (EST) to enter the “Eco-Friendly” Giveaway. I will be using Random.org to select the winner. On Thursday, July 22nd I will announce the winner and post details for the next giveaway.
Think Green! :-)
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Winner of the "From the Earth" Giveaway

Random.org selected #4 so congratulations goes to queta! You have won (1) 100g of Shikakai powder (Hesh) and (1) 100g of Cassia Obovata (Mehendi.com). Please send your info to me at callalily40@gmail.com by July 19th so I can mail your prize.
Thanks to everyone who entered the “From the Earth” Giveaway.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thanks to everyone who entered the “From the Earth” Giveaway.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Giveaway reminder

There’s still time to enter the "From the Earth" Giveaway (click here for details). This contest will end at Midnight tonight (EST) and details for the new giveaway will be posted tomorrow.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thursday, July 8, 2010
"From the Earth" Giveaway

This week’s giveaway is dealing with hair care products we get from plant life. I’ve experimented with several (henna (read here and here), amla, cassia, and common herbs) since going natural. If using the Earth’s natural resources for hair care is up your alley, this giveaway is for you.
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “From the Earth” Giveaway
What’s up for grabs?
(1) 100g of Shikakai powder (Hesh) and (1) 100g of Cassia Obovata (Mehandi.com). You can read the following articles on Shikakai and Cassia Obovata, however, I also advise you to do your own research.
*Disclaimer: all items haven been purchased with my own money. No company is sponsoring any giveaways*
Details for “From the Earth” Giveaway
What’s up for grabs?
(1) 100g of Shikakai powder (Hesh) and (1) 100g of Cassia Obovata (Mehandi.com). You can read the following articles on Shikakai and Cassia Obovata, however, I also advise you to do your own research.
Using cassia to condition hair
How can I enter?
If you are a BNG subscriber/follower, leave a comment below in this post on which plant material(s) you have used, currently use or would consider using in your regimen.
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, July 14th at Midnight (EST) to enter the “From the Earth” Giveaway. I will be using Random.org to select the winner. On Thursday, July 15th I will announce the winner and post details for the next giveaway.
Good luck! I’ll be doing my 3rd henna treatment at the end of this month and will provide updates then.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
How can I enter?
If you are a BNG subscriber/follower, leave a comment below in this post on which plant material(s) you have used, currently use or would consider using in your regimen.
When does the giveaway end?
You have from now until Wednesday, July 14th at Midnight (EST) to enter the “From the Earth” Giveaway. I will be using Random.org to select the winner. On Thursday, July 15th I will announce the winner and post details for the next giveaway.
Good luck! I’ll be doing my 3rd henna treatment at the end of this month and will provide updates then.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Winner of the "Buttered Up" Giveaway
Random.org selected #4 so congratulations goes to Shaharazad! You have won (1) 8oz tub of unrefined shea butter (Butters-N-Bars) and (1) 14.5 oz bottle of Almond & Shea Butter conditioner (Suave Professionals). Please send your info to me at callalily40@gmail.com by July 12th so I can mail your prize.
Thanks to everyone who entered the “Buttered Up” Giveaway.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Giveaway reminder

There’s still time to enter the "Buttered Up" Giveaway (click here for details). This contest will end at Midnight tonight (EST) and details for the new giveaway will be posted tomorrow.
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
Thanks for reading. Be blessed!
CallaLily
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- CallaLily
- I am passionate about beautiful, healthy hair. This blog was started to track my natural hair journey and to share information with you. You can contact me by email at callalily40@gmail.com
